You're about to learn the fool-proof technique my friend used to catch his wife cheating on him with another man (right under his nose) using a common household item.
From: John Matherly
Before you dive into this book,
ask yourself this question: do you really want to know?
You may think you do, but in
reality you may not.
If you suspect your lover is
cheating on you, it can stimulate a whole "crap house" full of
unhealthy behavior and crazy thinking.
Talk this over with some trusted
friends and get an outside opinion.
Next, I would not recommend using
any of these tactics without getting the advice of a lawyer and a qualified
Some of what I talk about here
could be dangerous or even potentially illegal in your jurisdiction. You need
to take full responsibility for your actions and research your laws.
Next – let’s have a little
talk about "spying." In case you don’t know, whatever the laws are
in your country, spying is just not cool. You don’t have the right to invade
someone else’s privacy, whether it’s legal or not. Someone’s business is
However, if you have someone who
made a vow to you and your family and their behavior is erratic and indicating
they are lying to you, is it wrong to invade their privacy and find out for sure?
If you’re right, you’ll
quickly forgive yourself for any snooping – but what if you’re wrong?
It’s a tough question and you
should think deeply about these things before you delve into this.
Further, some of the information
you uncover could be psychologically damaging. Sometimes it’s better not to
know what someone else is thinking. Especially when what people say is sometimes
a gross exaggeration of what they actually feel. For example, someone may say in
passing to a friend, "Yeah, that guy is a real asshole" when in
actuality they don’t think that badly of you. Only in that moment did they
have some harsh words to say about you. If you catch only that glimpse you may
walk away with a lower opinion of yourself.
Think carefully before you walk
down this path. If you don’t feel you can trust your lover, sometimes the best
option is just to leave them without putting yourself through all this trouble.
I have helped people with these methods and after discovering their lovers were
cheating on them they stayed with them and lived a life of paranoia.
I helped a friend of mine in New
Zealand catch his lover cheating on him and he realized at the end of it that he
simply should have ended it before verifying his suspicions. His lover was a
cruel and malicious person and he shouldn’t have needed the knowledge of
cheating to leave.
You would be wise to consider that
yourself now …
On the other hand, if you have
children it may be worth it to patch things up through counseling and keep the
family together for the sake of your children. Without the love of both parents
children may not get the full benefit of early development. And then … it may
be worse for the child to be around two parents who don’t love each other.
It’s not easy, is it? This is
why I strongly advise you to seek professional advice.
With that said, the following
methods are extremely effective at catching a cheating lover. I’m going to
outline a combination of methods you can employ as you see fit. A combination of
various methods is far more effective than any single one.
Remember that each method will
only give you a small snippet of reality and you should be careful about jumping
to conclusions before you have full evidence.
The patience required to put
together a full body of evidence is Herculean. It’s probably the most
difficult part of the process, especially when you have to keep your cool in the
Phase I – Preparation and
Step 1. Cool Your Head
Read the Introduction to this
And now read it one more time.
Do you really want to go through
If so, the first thing you need to
do is remain calm. Resolve yourself to the fact that this process may take a
little time and your heart is going to be ripped to pieces several times during
the process whether you catch your lover cheating on you or not.
Make yourself a promise right now:
I will not take any of the
information I find personally, no matter how insulting or heart-breaking.
If they are cheating on me, it’s about them – not me. I am a good
person and I determine my self-worth – no one else.
I will not jump to any
conclusions until I have irrefutable evidence.
I will not act on any
evidence I find until I have sought professional advice from the
appropriate legal and psychological professionals.
At no point will I ever
inflict any harm on anyone during this process – either physical or
mental. I will conduct myself admirably and can take the inevitable
emotional abuse that this process will inflict on me (no matter what I
Again, I will not harm
anyone during this process – even if I find some of the most shocking
and disturbing information… If I discover a crime, I will immediately
take myself to safety report it to the appropriate authorities.
I will not take justice
into my own hands.
I will think before I open
I will think before I act.
I will walk away from this
without having done anything I will later regret.
Is the above oath necessary? You
bet it is. To give you this information without you first taking that oath would
be grossly irresponsible.
Remember, if you harm someone in
this process, you alone will be accountable for your actions. It’s better to
endure a little pain now than to explain in front of a judge why you hurt
someone. It’s better to hold your tongue now than to explain to someone you
love later why you flew off the handle and said something you can never take
Get yourself under control right
Step 2. Warning Signs or
You wouldn’t be reading this if
you were not already suspicious that your lover is cheating on you.
Sometimes what you think is a sign
of infidelity is something harmless that you’re misinterpreting.
For example, in some cultures a
little peck on the cheek is acceptable among platonic friends. Where I live in
Miami almost everyone greets their friends of the opposite sex with a peck on
the cheek. If someone did this in Texas it might be seen as a sign of amorous
Take these things into
consideration before you jump to conclusions.
Try to think of alternate
explanations for what you are seeing as a sign of infidelity and consider it
It’s important now not to tip
your hand and indicate to your lover that you are suspicious. If you do and they
are in fact cheating on you, you just made it a lot harder to catch them.
Keep your suspicions to yourself
and don’t alter your outward behavior in any way. This will make your lover
feel relaxed and they’ll be more likely to slip up.
If you suspect something, ask
oblique questions to gather more information, but do not interrogate your
partner. That will cause them to shut down faster than anything else.
Here are some techniques for
gathering information and detecting lies:
If someone says they were out at
an event (say the gym or the movies or whatever) and you suspect they were
with a lover, you have a great opportunity here to gather information.
When they say what they were
doing, very casually and in a friendly tone ask for a detail they should know.
For example, if they say they
were out to dinner very quickly and non-confrontationally ask, "Oh great!
What did you have?"
Anyone who just had dinner
should know the answer to that question pretty quickly without having to think
If they hesitate, get defensive,
avert their eyes downward, get angry, or try to gloss over the details, then
you may very well caught them in a lie.
This isn’t foolproof, but it’s
a pretty good indicator. If you get any of these warning signs, be sure not to
show any signs of suspicion. Just note in mentally and move on as if nothing
Getting warning signs like this
several times in a row is a pretty good indicator of some hidden behavior.
However, you should always combine this with other methods and even perhaps
some judicious use of the "weapons" I’ll teach you about below.
Agitation and defensiveness is
probably one of the best indicators around. The truth never needs to be
defended, so if someone is angrily defensive when you ask them casually about
a minor detail you may have good cause for suspicion.
Other signs of dishonesty might
be: tension in the face (especially furrowing of the brow), swallowing,
averting the eyes, sudden distress when asked certain questions, fidgeting,
glossing over of details (especially in women who tend to be meticulous with
details when telling stories about what they did – men are likely to gloss
over details habitually even when telling the truth), and sudden outbursts of
Ultimately, the devil is in the
details. Even good liars can sometimes get themselves caught up in the details.
If their version of the story keeps changing it’s a good indication of
dishonesty. But then again, there could be a good explanation for it, too so
just be careful.
If you want to get really good
at catching a liar, be sure to study the Facial Action Coding System. It’s a
rather elaborate and scientific system that helps you to interpret the meaning
of facial expressions and can be quite effective at catching a liar.
Just remember to always keep
your cool as you make your observations.
2. Behavior Bravado
If your partner begins to
exhibit a sudden change in routine or behavior it could be an indicator of
"something else" going on in their life. That something else could
be cheating – it could be something else entirely.
Dig a bit before you jump to
conclusions. Using the Detail Digging technique can reveal more. Just remember
to remain a passive observer.
Some indicators that may be
stronger than others: a sudden change in musical tastes, a tendency to dress
up more when they go out without you, forgetting to do the little things that
you love …
3. The Stank that Wasn’t
Everyone knows that sex can
leave behind many clues and one of them is odor. Knowing this, a cheating
partner will almost always be freshly showered when they return from a
rendezvous with their lover. If it’s the end of the day and your lover
returns home freshly showered, do some Detail Digging to find out if they were
involved in any activity that may have warranted a shower (a visit to the
sauna or the gym, for example).
Whatever you do, don’t point
out to them your observation. The stupidest thing to say is, "You’re
showered … Why?!"
Keep your cool.
4. Cruel Intentions
If your lover is suddenly acting
cruelly, coldly, or dismissive to you, this may be a good indication of
something going on. Of course, they could just be having a bad day or month.
As a lover gets more attached to
their secret lover, they will tend to lose attachment to you.
Hey, if they are falling out of
love, that might be "grounds for dismissal" in any case, so give
that a thought. Remember, it might be better to just let them go if it’s not
working out, regardless of what else is going on.
Believe me, it will be better to
end the relationship without knowing. If you’re planning on sticking it out
no matter what, then knowing is essential for your sanity (not knowing someone
is cheating on you while it’s happening can really screw up your head), but
if you’re getting out anyway, just get it over with and get on with your
"I break up just like I
take off a band-aid. I strip it right off!"
5. Not Tonight Honey (Or the
Next 12 Months)
If the sex drive of your partner
suddenly drops, that may be a good indicator. Of course, it may not as well.
They could just be over-worked or they could be going through some other
However, if they seem otherwise
healthy and happy and they suddenly stop wanting sex (especially if the
suspect is a man), then you may have cause for concern.
Again, just keep your eyes open
and look for other indicators. Try to initiate sex more and see how they
respond. Try not to get agitated if they turn you down. Act like you’re not
noticing and dig deeper.
6. Mystery Phone Calls and Text
If your home phone rings often
and someone hangs up when you answer …
If your lover gets text messages
from time to time without saying who it was from and seems to want to hide
them from you …
If your lover is one the phone
and tries to stay out of earshot so you can’t hear what’s being said …
These can all be indicators of
your lover trying to hide something. Again, it could also mean nothing, so don’t
get too paranoid.
Just take notes, Detail Dig, and
keep looking calmly and coolly.
7. Monitor Switch
People who cyber-cheat or are
involved in communicating with their lovers online will often switch off their
monitors or close their browser windows quickly when you walk in the room.
Of course they could just be
doing something otherwise embarrassing, so don’t freak out and start hurling
Keep your cool, Detail Dig,
takes note and keep your eyes open.
8. Paper Trails
Often infidelity leaves a paper
trail. Check credit card statements and phone records for strange activity. If
the suspect isn’t very smart, they should be very easy to catch this way.
You’d be surprised how many people charge a hotel room to a credit card
without thinking of the consequence.
Step 3. Escalate or Escape?
After looking at all of the above
warning signs and using the above tests, unless you’ve uncovered some really
good evidence it may just come down to trusting your gut.
It is very possible that the above
methods will reveal the truth without digging deeper, but if you want hard
evidence that can be used in a divorce court, you may need to use some of the
more intensive "weapons" listed in the next section.
Again, it may just come down to
your gut and it’s probably a better judge than you may realize. Malcolm
Gladwell in his book "Blink" shows us how sometimes our gut instincts
are better than our conscious minds at making decisions. This is because our
conscious minds are only tapping into a tiny fraction of our total brain power.
It is very possible that after looking at all the evidence your "gut"
may have processed all the information more efficiently than you have. The
translation of this could result in a "gut feeling." Don’t ignore
So, if either through logic or gut
instinct you’ve determined that there is probably some cheating going on and
you want to dig deeper, then the following weapons will give you some near
fool-proof ways of finding out.
However, ask yourself again – do
you really want to know? If the relationship is over regardless, now might be
another good time to just let things go.
Remember, keep your cool. Never
let on that you suspect anything. Never let your anger lead to violence or
outbursts – that will only come back to hurt you later on.
Phase II – Hard
If you haven’t read all of my
warnings in the Introduction and Phase I, please go back and do so now. The
following tools are downright dangerous if used improperly, so if you’re not
confident about what you’re doing think twice.
Further, it may be illegal in
certain jurisdictions to use these tools in the way I’m suggesting here, so
you should check with a lawyer before proceeding.
Step 1. Check Yourself Again
Go through the Introduction
and Phase I again. Do you really want or need to do this? If no, stop now.
You’re about to enter a world where you will see things you may wish you
had never seen.
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